While divorce is a trying time – both financially and emotionally – studies show that mediation leads to a much more satisfactory outcome for all parties involved. Mediation is a process where a neutral third party sits down with both spouses, and helps them work through all aspects of their divorce. This includes the allocation of assets, issues related to child custody, alimony and more.

According to the Colorado-based law firm of Hull & Zimmerman, mediation is the preferred route to take because it allows both parties to communicate their feelings and concerns in an honest -- yet respectful -- manner. By “getting it all out in the open,” the chances of long-term satisfaction for all parties is greatly increased.

In Colorado, divorce occurs after one spouse files a Petition and sends a Summons to the other spouse. Or, both spouses may file jointly. Regardless, there is a mandatory waiting period of 90 days. During this interim period, the arrangements of the divorce are worked on. If the divorce is amicable, an agreement is submitted to the court, and the divorce is finalized.

If, however, there is a dispute, the process can take much longer. That’s where a mediator can be helpful.

Regardless of the specifics of a divorce, it’s always a good idea to have an attorney on your side. At the very least, an attorney can help you and your spouse find qualified mediation. If the divorce is hostile, an attorney can help you fight for your rights.

Divorce is never pleasant, but it doesn’t have to become overly nasty. An attorney can help keep things fair and civil.

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